My 1st ROM Anniversary...& I received a bouquet of flower from my hubby...haha.. really suprise me.. :)
My husband asked which day I want to celebrate our wedding anniversary. Then I said dunno o....Then he is the one that decide to celebrate our actual wedding day...which is 21 November.
Suprise me, early in the morning, he waked me up & asked me to open the door...mmm? I told he is here,so quickly I went down to open the door. But no one there, then I saw a red car stop.
His sister handed me the flower; suprise me alot as I forgot is our anniversary.. haha..
Everyone will have different ways of communication.
Some people very soft spoken; Some people will be very straight forward; Some people will be very "po ma"; Some people talk very loud; Some people don’t like to talk;
People from different family background talks differently.
When we talk, we might talk and try to persuade people from our point of view, yet not everyone can accept it. Everyone will have their own thought & own preferences.
So, not all can get use of the ways others talk. Some people prefer others to be straight forward. Yet, same do me.
But when we are in different mood, we will interpret the information wrongly. We will think that you insist us to follow what you want. We will feel that when you being so straight forward; you are scolding us.
So, no matter what happen, is just misunderstanding...
haih...duno what I'm writing. Just to express my feeling which is up side down...
Went to view our pre-wedding photo demo last weekend, the pre-wedding photo design is up to my expected, only a slight amendment needed.
Since I went back to Penang to set up my new house, the designer got no choice but to email to me. They actually can't provide the e-design soft copy to customer. But due to I am away, she needs to email me with no choice..:p
Although just few copies, but I'm very happy & satisfied upon receiving..hehe
1. This is my album cover page,love it so much!
2. This is my 床头照！
3。This is another option for my 床头照,but i decided to take the previous one, as hubby said this one got 2 kissing post.
4. I like this Maroon color gown so much, until I choose this gown for photo shooting as well as to my wedding dinner..haha
What is the different of a good manager and a good leader??? Is a good manager = a good leader?? Or a good leader = a good manager???
Well... A good manager does not mean that he/she is a good leader. There is a lot of confusion in organizations today about the difference between managing and leading.
A good manager do extremely well at getting things done which are proficiently managing processes, time lines, and resources in order to achieve desired results. A good leader, on the other hand, excels at inspiring people to do their best. Management stress on controlling things and people; leadership emphasizes inspiring and motivating people. Great organizations need great management, but for an organization to truly be great, it always must have great leadership.
So, What make a good leader? 1. A good leader has an exemplary character 2. A good leader is enthusiastic about their work or cause and also about their role as leader 3. A good leader is confident. 4. A leader also needs to function in an orderly and purposeful manner in situations of uncertainty. 5. Good leaders are tolerant of ambiguity and remain calm, composed and steadfast to the main purpose. 6. A good leader, as well as keeping the main goal in focus, is able to think analytically 7. A good leader is committed to excellence.
And, What make a good manager? 1. Priority Management 2. Knowing Your Team 3. Delegation of task & review 4. Motivate your team 5. Accept mistakes & being fair 6. Be a cool head 7. Conduct Meetings & Performance review
And if you already loose your employee confidence, try these: 1. Praise a job well done and offer incentives
2. Never dominate or authoritatively instruct the employee
3. Offer feedback consistently and frequently to employees 4. Offer training and educational opportunities so employees feel they are growing on the job
So, you are a good manager or good leader???
Remember to practice Look, Listen, Lead, Learn, Laugh with your team to succeed in your career.....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Vicky: Darling, what name is our house? Darling: What do you think? Vicky: Erm, maybe 瑞珞纬.... Darling: This name again? Vicky: Ooo...then you choose lor... Darling: 刘公馆 la.... Vicky: 好土哦!!!!! ............ .......... ..........
Vicky: " Hey, you wanna buy fruits??? We sell apples and oranges..." Colleague: " No thanks" Vicky: " Harlo, you wanna buy apples? 8 for only $5....or maybe oranges? 5 for $6...." Colleague:"okie..okie...give me 1 packet then.."
I am selling fruits now in my company...because I am the project owner for food fair. The purpose is to generate more fund for our Sport Club, so that we can have extra budget while planning our yearly activities...
My sales target is to generate another $5K in this year...mmmm....sound possible? or impossible? It seem tough ya!
Well...this is the 2nd weeks we are selling. Sport Club not only selling fruits, but "Tong Sui" as well... It is actually quite tiring. With your own Job Responsibility, at the same time, have to cook tong sui and sell in the pantry..."EVERY FRIDAY"!!!! Gosh.....
In the future, I am going to include Vitagen, Tit Bits....and etc that can generate income.....
How good will it be if the income go into my own pocket....haha...
